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Asshole Rules Can Be Fun for Starting Book Clubs

The No Asshole Rule by Robert Sutton will certainly test the strength of your book club to accept creative subject matter, generate lively discussion and deal with an issue that may or may not resonate with your book club members.

Robert Sutton has candidly put forward his observance of the tolerance behaviors that many companies demonstrate regarding the assholes who roam their halls and supervise others.

When we discussed this book during our monthly book club meeting, each one of us had one or more real life examples of assholes we have had to deal with in our work lives. In fact, one member had a front-burner situation regarding assholes who are currently making her work environment pretty miserable.  We all rallied with a variety of solutions and responses to the jerks in her world.  And, yes, one of our suggestions had something to do with the tires of the jerks’ cars.

The rest of us talked about how we faced off to the troublemakers in our careers and found that often we had handled the assholes well and at other times, we missed an opportunity to be a hero and save some souls.  Assholes as supervisors cause an inordinate amount of damage to employee morale and overall profitability.

The author of this book was artful at providing a variety of diplomatic actions to take to deal with assholes in a work culture.  In the long run, businesses that hope to be successful must learn to flush the assholes from their culture and keep the doors barred against new ones who try to get in.  We all cheered when reading about the companies who are serious about instigating and enforcing a no asshole rule in their culture.  Wouldn’t that be ideal?

This book club selection was a great test of the mettle of our members and it appears we all passed, possibly because we set up a no asshole rule when starting our book club.

To see our other book club selections, check out the Hot Picks page of this site.

Starting Book Clubs in Five Easy Steps

It should not be difficult to start a book club yet most book lovers want to do this right.  We have the perfect guidelines in five easy steps.

Step one: Establish your Theme

To start your own book club, you will determine the theme or the direction your club will take.  It’s an important part of your book club’s identity to make a commitment to the kinds of books your group will or will not read.  Under Themes, we have presented a variety of book club themes we encountered in our research on starting book clubs.  The Theme will have a direct impact on the kinds of members who will be attracted to your club.

For instance, not all women are interested in joining a book club with an established theme of Women’s Issues, however, if that’s an area of interest that you want to explore, you will need to disclose to your prospective members the specific focus of your new club.

Step two: Determine the kinds of reading material you will explore:  hardback books, paperbacks, eBooks or audio books.  Some clubs are reading only hardcover books while others have decided to allow any kind of book material into their club.  You decide.

Step three: How will your club function?  In other words, what are the guidelines or rules (if any)?  In the Club Guidelines section, we present several variations from which you can choose.  At this point, you will determine if you will meet face-to-face as a group or remotely through computers, chats, email, or perhaps by video or telephone conferencing.  This will help frame who can be a member and who cannot.

Step four: Invite members.  Look for the right number of people who fit your criteria and extend offers to them.  You must have a clear understanding of their level of commitment to the group experience so that all your expectations can be set.

Step five: Pick a book and start reading!

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You might find inspiration from the trailer on the Jane Austen Book Club movie you can see on our Videos page.