Start a Book Club for Singles

There are hundreds of reasons to start a book club and one of those reasons may be to join singles together in a common interest other than being single.

For many years I was a member of a business owners book club, which in itself was exclusive. A singles book club, which sounds exclusive, makes perfectly good sense if a group of single individuals want to share their life perspectives after reading books.

Singles don’t all think alike, of course, they do have unique aspects to how they view the world just as married people share unique aspects in how they view the world. If you are thinking of joining some single friends together to discuss your views on selected books, go for it! Reading books together will provide another commonality.

If you want to get together and discuss how and why you are single, that’s your choice, however, to start a book club for singles, you may want to select books that will serve to enlighten you and support you on your single status. Two books come to mind and they are quite different from each other. The first book will certainly be more appealing to women yet men will find a lot of information that will help them be or continue to be a quality guy.

The first book I recommend is by Dr. Kenneth Ryan and is called Finding Your Prince in a Sea of Toads. I am not supposing that your single friends all want to find a prince but it will shed light on male and female interactions in the dating world. Dr. Ryan’s book gets superb reviews and discusses subject matter that is typically only discussed among close friends. I wish this book had been available when I was single! I wouldn’t have … well, nevermind.

The second book is wrapped more around achieving or maintaining good health: Honest Eating: How to Love Food, Love Yourself & Love Life. It’s written by Jane McClaren, a single woman who cleared many hurdles before she became healthy and stable. She’s on the road giving presentations and talks all across America about how easy it really is to eat and behave your way into a healthy lifestyle.

These two books could be great ways to start a book club for singles!

Book Club Book Criteria – New

The book clubs that include me as a member have criteria for selecting our books but that criteria is general in nature.  For instance, one book club reads books that contribute to our professional and personal development because all of us are business owners wanting to stay on top of business issues and keep our businesses thriving.  That book selection criteria generally eliminates a lot of book types such as: cook books, mysteries, novels, fiction, travel, pets, comics, etc.  As a result, we have all strengthened our businesses, learned from each other and filtered out the nuggets of wisdom from experts who have written books about business.

Another book club I am in contemplates reading books that have been recommended to us by other book clubbers or that look enticing.  We collect a long list that includes brief descriptions.  Then we vote on the ones we will schedule for our year, making sure we get a good variety.  It’s all so democratic and works quite well.

None of my book clubs talk about what we want the book to DO for us in specific terms.  In reading a recent book, I have come up with a new criteria that I want to look for in other book selections.

I just completed Flash Foresight by Daniel Burrus and am completely and totally revved up.  After I read about one quarter of the way through the book, I wanted to abandon it because I had so many ideas and just couldn’t sit still.  I persevered and completed the book and kept getting revved up more and more after each chapter.  Now – hold me back!

Here’s the book I am discussing.  If you want to click below and buy it through Amazon, I’d love you for it because I would get a few pennies, but what I REALLY want from you is a revved up discussion.

I am feverishly looking for others who have read this book so that we can discuss how it has changed us. My mind has been expanded in so many ways about how we can approach and have control over our future.  This book has seriously affected my approach to getting a new game I have developed out to the marketplace (more about that later).

I have put the pressure on my daughter-in-law to read the book (she’s quite a reader) for my own selfish need to discuss this brilliant and exciting book.

So my recommendation to all my book clubs and to all book clubs around the world is to build a list of criteria that you wish your books will meet.  This criteria might include:

1.  learn more about a topic or issue

2.  be inspired to do something differently

3.  learn what not to do

4.  find content that stimulates thought

5.  read a book that simply makes you feel good about something (love, life, family, earth…)

6.  read a book about an issue dear to you

7.  learn about other people and cultures

8.  read a book that inspires discussion

9.  read a book that is opposite of your own views

10.  READ A BOOK THAT GETS YOU SO REVVED UP!

If you read Flash Foresight and want to tell me how it changed your approach to your future, please please let me know!  I want to hear from you.

Green Theme for Starting Book Clubs

I often hear “How many trees did we cut down for that book” but never thought about the answer. Perhaps I didn’t care enough. If you care enough about being a good Earth Citizen by sparing trees and preserving our natural resources and are interested in starting a book club, it would make sense for you to start a Green Book Club .

Your green theme can take three forms, or any combination thereof.

1. You can focus your books only on works that discuss ways to preserve and replenish the environment. Your selections may revolve around solar energy, wind power, water conservancy, potable water creation for third world countries, recycling items and methodologies, waste reduction, cleaner air, alternative energy sources, green buildings, innovation with hybrid vehicles. The list can be lengthy.

2. Or you can read books that are only printed on recycled materials. Publishers are getting wiser about using recycled paper products but not fast enough. The recycled paper concept has been around and available for decades yet most publishers still use new, fresh paper for their book products. Some of the big publishing agencies such as Simon & Schuster, Penguin and Random House are putting special teams on the task of identifying recycled materials that would make sense for their business.

3. Your book club can avoid buying printed books altogether. You have so many options. The best option of course is the famous Kindle.

You can click here to buy a Kindle at Amazon.com. The prices are coming down a whole lot. A recent review in Consumers Report gave the Kindle rave reviews, even above Apple’s iPad. My husband recently gave me a Kindle 6” for my birthday and I am nuts about it! Other ways of sticking to your Green Theme is to only allow books that come from libraries or second hand stores, which are excellent ways to recycle books. Your club can rent books from a variety of online sources. One we have supported has been Booksfree.com. Another way to avoid buying new books is to only purchase audio formatted books. Audible.com is our preferred choice for audio books but many companies are trying to join that band wagon.

Good luck moving forward on your Green light. Starting book clubs around your ideals and passions are very satisfying.

Asshole Rules Can Be Fun for Starting Book Clubs

The No Asshole Rule by Robert Sutton will certainly test the strength of your book club to accept creative subject matter, generate lively discussion and deal with an issue that may or may not resonate with your book club members.

Robert Sutton has candidly put forward his observance of the tolerance behaviors that many companies demonstrate regarding the assholes who roam their halls and supervise others.

When we discussed this book during our monthly book club meeting, each one of us had one or more real life examples of assholes we have had to deal with in our work lives. In fact, one member had a front-burner situation regarding assholes who are currently making her work environment pretty miserable.  We all rallied with a variety of solutions and responses to the jerks in her world.  And, yes, one of our suggestions had something to do with the tires of the jerks’ cars.

The rest of us talked about how we faced off to the troublemakers in our careers and found that often we had handled the assholes well and at other times, we missed an opportunity to be a hero and save some souls.  Assholes as supervisors cause an inordinate amount of damage to employee morale and overall profitability.

The author of this book was artful at providing a variety of diplomatic actions to take to deal with assholes in a work culture.  In the long run, businesses that hope to be successful must learn to flush the assholes from their culture and keep the doors barred against new ones who try to get in.  We all cheered when reading about the companies who are serious about instigating and enforcing a no asshole rule in their culture.  Wouldn’t that be ideal?

This book club selection was a great test of the mettle of our members and it appears we all passed, possibly because we set up a no asshole rule when starting our book club.

To see our other book club selections, check out the Hot Picks page of this site.

Secrets of Eden is controversial for starting book clubs

Our book club recently read Secrets of Eden by Chris Bohjalian. Some of us loved the read; others did not. But what surprised me is the variety of interpretations we had about characters in the book and messages from the author.

One of the biggest benefits of a good book club is hearing other points of view when reading books. This particular experience led us to a discussion about whether or not the author is against religion.

If you have also read Secrets of Eden, would you care to comment about our controversy? What do you think?

Do you think the author is:
A. Definitely against Religion
B. Not necessarily against Religion
C. Have no idea

If you haven’t read the book, you can click below and buy it directly from Amazon. Then check back with us and let us know what you think!

The Future of Publishing great to show when starting book clubs

To all book lovers, here’s a very clever rendition from YouTube that we must share with you. 


Starting Book Clubs in Five Easy Steps

It should not be difficult to start a book club yet most book lovers want to do this right.  We have the perfect guidelines in five easy steps.

Step one: Establish your Theme

To start your own book club, you will determine the theme or the direction your club will take.  It’s an important part of your book club’s identity to make a commitment to the kinds of books your group will or will not read.  Under Themes, we have presented a variety of book club themes we encountered in our research on starting book clubs.  The Theme will have a direct impact on the kinds of members who will be attracted to your club.

For instance, not all women are interested in joining a book club with an established theme of Women’s Issues, however, if that’s an area of interest that you want to explore, you will need to disclose to your prospective members the specific focus of your new club.

Step two: Determine the kinds of reading material you will explore:  hardback books, paperbacks, eBooks or audio books.  Some clubs are reading only hardcover books while others have decided to allow any kind of book material into their club.  You decide.

Step three: How will your club function?  In other words, what are the guidelines or rules (if any)?  In the Club Guidelines section, we present several variations from which you can choose.  At this point, you will determine if you will meet face-to-face as a group or remotely through computers, chats, email, or perhaps by video or telephone conferencing.  This will help frame who can be a member and who cannot.

Step four: Invite members.  Look for the right number of people who fit your criteria and extend offers to them.  You must have a clear understanding of their level of commitment to the group experience so that all your expectations can be set.

Step five: Pick a book and start reading!

How can we talk about books without including Amazon.com!  There are many other sources of fine books at great prices but you can search for anything on Amazon right from here.

You might find inspiration from the trailer on the Jane Austen Book Club movie you can see on our Videos page.

Starting Book Clubs – It’s Worth It

In economies that are either vibrant or struggling, Book Clubs thrive. They have proven to be one of the strongest bonding agents for human interactions. The best book clubs can be passionate and avid readers or casual hobby readers.  Learn here what you will need to know to start your own book club.  Book club participants gain friendships and support groups all while keeping their brain muscles in shape.

Discover the four general reasons why people start book clubs: The members:

1) are bonded to address a common Theme,

2) have Geography considerations in common,

3) choose Electronic versions of reading material, or

4) prefer to hear the Audio versions of stories instead of reading them.